It’s a new year, new day, and I pray a new mindset for everyone!
I hope all of the singles crossed over into the new year. Still believing, still practicing abstinence, and filled with expectancy! I know that last year was rough! And if you are like me, weary can’t describe how you felt in 2016 while waiting on your mate. So what I want to say to you is this! Focus on your relationship with God in 2017!
Before we begin to stress about whether we are going to meet our spouse’s this year….it’s good to reflect on your own growth and maturity in Christ. Ask yourself are you the wife/husband you should be. It’s easy to say what we want and desire out of a relationship! But think about what you are bringing to the table.
For the ladies the biggest issue nowadays is that we spend so much time chasing the man instead of allowing him to pursue us. The biggest issue for men now is that he doesn’t take time to ask God about the woman to be.
The problem with Christians and dating is that we assume we have all the answers. Sadly we don’t and that’s why the divorce rate is just as high with Christians.
*Ladies! You can’t expect to have a god-filled marriage when your man has NO VISION! He should be seeking and have sought God for the plan for his life. If he does not know what he is destined to be or do then he is not ready for marriage. You’ll end up following him to a dead end. Girls get rid of all your excess baggage, emotions, doubts, fears, and past experiences! You have to be ready to give your husband your all!
*Gents! You can’t expect to find a wife and find a good thing if you are pursuing an idea of what a woman should be. Beauty is temporary! It’s like shopping for new sneaks. You have a plethora of choices. Once you decided on the style, then you choose the color. Once you choose the color, then you have to pick the right size! If you wear a size 12 you can’t possibly fit a 10. It’ll cut off your circulation! If you pick a size 14 you will be stuntin’ but ultimately lose your footing because it’s too big.
Ladies you should never be caught chasing a man. If he wants you he will come get you! Men are not shy when it comes to want they want! And fellas if she is the aggressor you will always be the tail and not the head. You will find yourself chasing her vision and her dream and not your own.
Just something to think about! 2017 is going to be a great year! Don’t make it harder on yourself!